There are a few hadiths used to proclaim masturbation as haram:
1. Anarrationattributed toAnas ibn Malikreports:
The Prophet of Allah said, “The person who performs Nikah with his hands (i.e. masturbation) is cursed.”
In this hadith, the phrase “Nikah with his hands” is supposed to mean masturbation. But what is Nikah? Nikah is the marriage contract. Why is the word for the “marriage contract” being translated as masturbation? Is the word Nikah similar to the word sex?
Is Nikah a synonym for sex?
I don’t see how it could be. Is “marriage contract” the same as saying “sex contract”? I always assumed marriage was a term which meant something broader than sex.
As far as I can tell, this hadith is non-sense. It just doesn’t make any sense. When someone masturbates, that person isn’t marrying their hand (or whatever else the person is using to masturbate). No one is sitting in their room, with the curtains drawn, negotiating Nikah terms between their hands and their privates. No one that masturbates is trying to marry a body part of theirs. Can you even marry yourself? Is that even a possibility?
2. Anarration attributed toSa’id ibn Jubayr reports:
The Prophet of Allah said, “Allah Taala will inflict a punishment on a group of people because they played with their private parts.”
This hadith seems to be talking more about group masturbation. I can see how this hadith may be true, in the sense that it’s message may be correct. In Surah 23, verses 5 to 7, Allah says the only people allowed to see ones private parts are ones spouses and slaves. No one else is allowed to see them, without a good reason.
In a group masturbation situation, others, that are not your spouse or slave, will be able to see your privates.
This hadith cannot be used to say individual masturbation is haram because that is not what this hadith is about.
3. Anarration attributed toHasan ibn Arfah reports:
The Messenger said, “Seven persons are such that Allah will not look at them on the Day of Qiyaamat nor will He purify them nor will He include them among the learned and Allah will enter them into Jahannam. They will enter Jahannam first except those who repent. As those who repent Allah will accept their repentance.
- A person who masturbates.
- A person who performs the act of sodomy.
- The person upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
- A perpetual drunkard.
- The person who hits parents so much that they appeal for help.
- The person who harms his neighbors so much so that they curse him.
- The person who commits adultery with his neighbor’s wife.
This hadith, as well as all hadiths by this narrator, is considered a weak hadith by most scholars. So I’m not going to waste any more time than already spent on it. This hadith is fake.